Stalemate

I'm not entirely sure what "stalemate" means exactly, but I know the term is used in chess and I know what the term "stale" means, so...I'm pretty sure that whatever "this" is...is a stalemate.

I'm just now listing the necklaces I made LAST weekend. It's probably not good to wait that long, but it's not exactly like my items are flying out the door. I'm the worst sales person Ever. (yes, with a capital E). I'm shy. I'm quiet. I don't want to just shove my product into people's faces, because I don't like that way of advertising. So how am I to get my name, etc out there? Still trying to figure that one out. Hopefully the Craft Fair at PSU on the 21st will help. It has to help. I can't see how it will hurt anything.